{"id":645,"date":"2015-05-28T11:22:36","date_gmt":"2015-05-28T16:22:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.etrafficlane.com\/60dollarmiracle\/social-media-feminine-vs-traditional-marketing-masculine"},"modified":"2015-05-28T11:22:36","modified_gmt":"2015-05-28T16:22:36","slug":"social-media-feminine-vs-traditional-marketing-masculine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.etrafficlane.com\/60dollarmiracle\/social-media-feminine-vs-traditional-marketing-masculine","title":{"rendered":"Social Media (Feminine) Vs Traditional Marketing (Masculine)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div>\n<p>The big social media news of the week is Facebook&#8217;s new Groups.  Like with any great tool, there are ways to use it for positive results &#8211; and ways to abuse it.<\/p>\n<p>In one of the internet marketing forums I&#8217;m a part of, somebody posted recently that he&#8217;s excited about the new Groups features because, in his words:<\/p>\n<p>Now you can automatically add &#8220;friends&#8221; as group members. Previously you could only send an invite that needed to be accepted &#8211; now enrollment is automatic&#8230;  The next key change is that you can post to the group wall and an email will be sent to every group member (awesome). I sorta cringe to hear people highlighting these &#8220;benefits&#8221; of groups. Groups &#8211; just like everything in social media &#8211; is not about the automation.  And to focus on that would turn your &#8220;friends&#8221; against you.<\/p>\n<p>Just yesterday I interviewed Matt Bacak for a compilation CD I&#8217;m putting together called &#8220;What&#8217;s Working in Social Media &#8211; Lessons From the Experts.&#8221;  And he spent a lot of time talking about the fact that most internet marketers don&#8217;t &#8220;get&#8221; social media.  They think it&#8217;s about the (very maculine) tactic of blasting your message everywhere; when in fact it&#8217;s about the (much more feminine) art of listening and providing value.<\/p>\n<p>He also said people are missing the boat when they&#8217;re looking for direct EPC from their social media.  He went so far as to say that although he doesn&#8217;t have the hard numbers to back it up, he feels certain that the people who buy from him are doing so because they&#8217;re <u>also<\/u> connected to him on Twitter and Facebook.<\/p>\n<p>That is an argument I&#8217;ve been making for a long time &#8211; that your conversion rate with your emails or direct mail will skyrocket when you&#8217;re also communicating with those same people on social media.  And not just blasting them in a different medium, by the way &#8211; but rather, chatting about their dog and kids and travel.  Those &#8220;waste of time&#8221; topics that do nothing but create rapport.  Oh yeah, that thing.  Remember it?<\/p>\n<p>In this way, social media is not unlike the newsletter &#8211; the tried and true standby of direct mail.  Not the content newsletter that people pay for, by the way, but just the chatty &#8220;here&#8217;s a little way for us to stay in touch during the month&#8221; newsletter.  Why does it work?  Because it lets your customers get to know you a bit as a person.  Same as social media.<\/p>\n<p>The person who I quoted at the beginning of this article has actually done a terrific job over the last year and a half, using social media to build a large and responsive list for himself.   And he&#8217;s succeeded at that not because of the automation strategies he uses, but because he&#8217;s put a LOT of time and effort into communicating authentically with his people, and providing a lot of good content and terrific value.  And all that real &#8220;work&#8221; is something I&#8217;m afraid gets lost in the shuffle when newbies are looking for the magic pill and they read something like &#8220;you can now automatically add friends, and all your messages go to their inbox.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/ezinearticles.com\/?Social-Media-(Feminine)-Vs-Traditional-Marketing-(Masculine)&#038;id=5177137\">Source<\/a> by <a href=\"http:\/\/ezinearticles\/?expert=Julia_Kline\">Julia Kline<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The big social media news of the week is Facebook&#8217;s new Groups. 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